Today would have been John Coltrane's 83rd birthday. I titled this post as I did simply because that's a really cool song composed by Trane. The song below is actually a Duke Ellington song that 'Trane did. I've posted it because it is so hauntingly lyrical and beautiful. According to Wikipedia, (an important caveat, I suppose) In a Sentimental Mood was composed in Durham, NC.
John Coltrane was born in Hamlet, NC and grew up in High Point, NC. He left and never returned as far as I know. The photo shown is of a statue in High Point.
OK, so last Wednesday, I'm at Village Tavern where they have a regular "Wine and Dine Wednesday" promotion that features ½ price wines by the glass. The ½ price wine is not the reason I'm there because I generally stick to guzzling hard liquor like a man that "likes to get drunk quick" (ala "it's a wonderful life"), but the promotion tends to be a pretty big draw for other folks.It's typically a noisy and what I would call "vulgar" crowd.
Anyway, to get to my point, I 'm sitting at the bar sipping a scotch whiskey and this guy comes up beside me and starts talking to me, trying to make a point that he got drunk for just $13.50. I doubt that I was looking particularly impressed with this revelation when the guy pauses from a minute, looks at me and asks:
"Are you Jewish?"
At this point, I lift my glass from the bar, take a sip of my scotch, return the glass to the bar, look at the guy and reply: "Technically, no."
The fellow looks at me with a somewhat confused countenance and replies:
"Whaddya mean? Yeah you are, right? you're Jewish!"
I look back at the fellow and calmly say, "Technically, no.I'm of Scotch-Irish ancestry and was raised as an Episcopalian.However, as Brendan Behan noted 'Other people have a nationality, the Irish and the Jews have a psychosis' "
The guy looks more confused and blubbers "I'm Irish, what the hell's that supposed to mean?"
I told him, "I don't know, Brendan Behan said it.He was a famous Irish playright.Maybe it's about the guilt."
The guy says "Who said that? How do you spell it?" and starts looking for a pen to write it down as I slowly spelled the name for him. I never thought to ask why he inquired of my ethnic origins to begin with, but I'm sure it doesn't matter.
Someone at the same restaurant asked the same question of a co-worker and me a few months ago. It's a little puzzling, and although, again, it doesn't matter, I don't think that I'll be going back there for Wine and Dine Wednesday specifically. I prefer a quieter, less raucous clientele that is more conducive to my brooding.
The problem is today that folks seem to be afraid that if they aren't being loud and obnoxious, somebody may think they aren't having a good time.
Walking on Velvet Green. A nice song. (I'll post a nicer Ian Anderson song tomorrow )
Walking on Velvet Green - Scots Pine growing. Isn't it rare to be taking the air, sinning - Walking on Velvet Green.
Walking on Velvet Green - distant cows lowing. Never a care; with your legs in the air, loving - Walking on Velvet Green.
Won't you have my company, yes, take it in your hands. Go down on Velvet Green, with a country-man. Who's a young girl's fancy and an old maid's dream. Tell your mother that you walked all night on Velvet Green.
One dusky half-hour's ride up to the north. There lies your reputation and all that you're worth. Where the scent of wild roses turns the milk to cream. Tell your mother that you walked all night on Velvet Green.
And the long grass blows in the evening cool. And August's rare delight may be April's fool. But think not of that my love, I'm tight against the seam. And I'm growing up to meet you down on Velvet Green.
Now I may tell you that it's love and not just lust. And if we live the lie, let's lie in trust. On golden daffodils, to catch the silver stream That washes out the wild oat seed on Velvet Green.
We'll dream as lovers under the stars: Of civilizations raging afar. And the ragged dawn breaks on your battle scars As you walk home cold and alone upon Velvet Green.
Walking on Velvet Green - Scots Pine growing. Isn't it rare to be taking the air, sinning - Walking on Velvet Green.
Walking on Velvet Green - distant cows lowing. Never a care; with your legs in the air, loving - Walking on Velvet Green.
They are all good, but I especially liked this one.
Traveling to Texas with a dog
By Gene Owens
"He travels fastest who travels alone," wrote Rudyard Kipling, and the old boy's right. But traveling with a dog slows you down only a tad, and the company's worth the extra minutes.
Since Miss Peggy was minding our grandson Chase in Georgia and I was overdue a visit to my son Matt on South Padre Island, Texas, I decided to take advantage of her absence to drive to the Mexican border. My great-grandson, Kaiden, was 5 months old and I hadn't seen him.
"You're not driving down there!" said Miss Peggy. The assumption is that a 72-year-old man can't find his way across six states, even with a GPS to guide him.
"I'm not flying," I told her. I've never felt comfortable in the air, and the Hassle of air travel, connecting flights, baggage claims, and car rentals negates for me the advantage of jet speed. I prefer to stay on the ground, faithful dog beside me, a rest area every 35 miles and a McDonald's, Hardee's, Burger King or Shoney's at every third or fourth exit.
I planned to stop overnight going and coming in Mobile, Ala., with daughter Cherie and her husband, Joe. Mapquest.com told me it would take me 13 hours to drive from Mobile to South Padre Island. I figured that 13 hours behind the wheel was no more exhausting than 13 hours in front of a computer screen, and I've pulled that off many times.
Miss Candi, my 14-year-old Peke-a-poo, would be my travel companion. I broke her in to car travel when she was just a few weeks old, and she accompanied me on many a trip around the state of Alabama when I worked for the Mobile Press-Register. Arthritis now makes her accustomed perch atop my shoulder uncomfortable, so I outfitted my Toyota Matrix for her comfort.
The back seats folded down to form a flat floor, and I placed her bed on it. I spread out a blanket and put her food dish and a water dish on it. She has a cushion to smooth her way across the console when she wants to move from the shotgun seat to my lap. And she could curl up for a nap in her own bed whenever she liked. We packed a supply of her favorite dog food in her travel bag, but she also got a ham biscuit whenever I stopped for breakfast. I would go through the drive-through and order my meal and hers. Then I would stop in the parking lot and we would share breakfast. She would eat the ham and I would dunk the biscuit in my coffee.
Traveling with a dog is different from traveling with a wife. The dog never wants to stop at an outlet mall, never has to pick up emergency supplies from Salley's, never wants to listen to Streisand when I prefer Old Hank. She's just as happy at Hardee's as she is at Applebee's, where the food is fancier but the service is slower.
As I traveled across east Texas, I stopped for Texas barbecue in a town called Refugio, and ate in a hole-in-the-wall in a rundown strip mall that I wouldn't have taken Miss Peggy into. The ribs were good, even if they were taken from an animal that said moo"instead of one that said "oink." And I could go home and tell people that I ate in the town that gave the world Nolan Ryan. It says so on a sign at city limits. The only thing Nolan Ryan and I have in common is arthritis, but it felt good breathing the air that a Hall-of-Fame pitcher had breathed. By 10 p.m. I was pulling up to the LaQuinta Inn in Brownsville, where I knew from past experience that my 10-pound dog would be welcome.
I hooked up my GPS and let Gypsy direct me to Matt's front door. Gypsy is the synthesized woman's voice that comes out of the pathfinding instrument. She spends a lot of time telling me to make a U-turn at my earliest convenience, because I often ignore her directions.
I spent a couple of days with the kids, took them to Brownsville's zoo, ate seafood near the mouth of the Rio Grande, had a Presidente margarita at Chili's (they don't make them better in the local joints), and allowed Candi to bask in the attention of my grandchildren.
On Monday, I turned in early, determined to hit the road the first time I woke up. I awoke at 2 a.m., after six hours of sleep. I roused Candi, and headed for home. The Border Patrol stopped me between Brownsville and Corpus to allow its dogs to sniff my car. Candi tolerated them without a growl.
I spent the morning ignoring Gypsy's admonition to "execute a U-turn as soon as possible." Texas had built some new highways around Corpus and she didn't recognize them. I knew I was returning the way I had come. Somewhere before I reached Victoria, she figured out where I was and directed me on a route that allowed me to slide through Houston on I-10 without a single jam. I regretfully bypassed the town that advertised "the biggest squirrel in Texas." I was afraid it would take me for the biggest nut in Texas and Candi would be stranded a thousand miles from home with no driver.
I got back to Anderson ready for a good night's sleep and a weekend in North Carolina with Miss Peggy.
The pace may have been slower than it would have been aboard Delta. But my baggage got home the same time I did. I didn't have to put my dog in a kennel. I didn't have to pay an exorbitant fee for parking my car at the airport and I didn't have to rent a car to drive around the Brownsville area.
I still hate flying.
(Readers may write Gene Owens at 315 Lakeforest Circle, Anderson SC 29625, or e-mail him at WadesDixieco@aol.com)
I enjoyed them both although on different levels as one might expect.
One thing that I thought was a little different was that Al Garcia featured a few different themes. One that I thought was maybe a little different for the time (1974) was the inclusion of the gay, dispassionate, suit-wearing hit men as characters. As I recall, back in the day, gay movie characters were fairly stereotypical. It took a few scenes for me to catch on.
